This here is exactly how I ended up talking to my scammer for far too long and losing too much to him. That would be my only advice to anyone facing any indecision about if it is 'real' or not. If your gut says there is something 'off', trust your gut.I trusted my heart which is where I believe God speaks to you and it all blew up in my face. However, I had to be honest with myself today. In hindsight, there were signs saying "run" and I ignored them or did not press him for the answer I needed to know. So it's my fault too. Ladies, please trust your instincts and don't get so head over heels with someone that you ignore them. My best wishes to all.