Question: How can I explain to the romance scam victims that we do not recommend victims to contact ROP, if victim excuses that she believes that she has no intention of love affairs or anger to the ROP but simply and purely interested to his professionalism. (So she believes nothing wrong with befriend with ROP with pure interest without love affairs or any stalking intention, but to find an innocent friend on SNS. So she assume that I am the wrong person says NO to her pure interest.)
I have faced few times, a victim finds a ROP and attempted to contact the ROP although I said I do not recommend.
Usually the unhappy victim leave me and go ahead with ROP. Some of them angry and never come back to me. Some of them came to me later on and ask me for advise, but what I say is not meeting their expectation.
For example, recently I was contacted by a scam victim (fortunately, money not sent), she had chat with ROP for a while and was blocked by ROP after a while. She asked me to resolve the issue with ROP and I rejected, as I have no reason to resolve the issue between ROP and vic, which I never recommended to do so.
She excuses that she was amazed by the ROP's professionalism, and interested to what he does as job. Not anything to do with love affairs, or bother him, she said.
She believes she is different from the victims whom "what ROP says" describes, such as sending love message or "give money back" shouts to the ROP and do all sorts of stalking to the ROP.
These women says, they are truly interested to the professional skill of ROP and purely wanted to become just a friend.
It is nothing wrong to make friend with someone you have same interest and want to know more about the skill of that hobby or whatever. So they are hard to understand my point that we should not bother ROP, because they thik they are not bothering ROP.
What can I say to these people, who believes that it is nothing wrong to contact with ROP if the intention is pure and good??