I can't even begin to say how pleased I was to find this web site last week. I spent so many hours trying to research and figure out so many things. You are a God-sent. I need so much help. As I'm sure many here know, it literally rips your heart out and destroys you.I have never cried so hard, or so much in my life. I was so careful, but they were smart and wore me down. I will never be the same, but, I have learned so much. Honestly...I'm a little tired of life thinking I have so many lessons to be learned...I now come here daily, sometimes several times a day. It helps me to keep things in the right perspective. I need a lot of support to get through this, and here is the only place I will get it, and from others that understand the whole situation. I am not needy, ugly, a shut in, but just the opposite...I have even worked in corrections, and with sexual violent predators, and social paths. I was very guarded and cautious. But, "He" knew exactly what to say, and I fell very much in love. But, it was all a smoke screen, a game, and when I started having a few too many questions and started checking...it was gut wrenching. I now have to go through the healing process in whatever way works the best for me so I can move on. I want to thank all of you for any and all support given here. It means more than I could ever express...keep helping each other and we will all be wiser and whole again...I only wish that these horrible excuses for human beings could be prosecuted, I thought stolen identity and fraud was against the law. Some of these dating/social websites need to have a place where victims can file complaints ""with proof" of fake identities, etc. that goes against the policy agreements and have them checked out....just thinking. Gives these guys too much easy prey/money. Thanks everyone..