quietstorm
Welcome to RS. We are very sorry for the scam. This Ayeni Sesan James in Nigeria ( if it is his real name after all) is a Nigerian black scammer which work for the mafia. They find people online which look for relationships, make them to fall in love with them just so later they can strike for money.
Please RUN to the bank and close this account as soon as you can. The mafia recruited you as their money mule and they want to use your bank account to launder the stolen by them from other bank accounts money. Unfortunately this is a crime and you as an owner of the account which need to accept /sign terms and conditions at the time of the opening account will be responsible for the fraud and face prison time if convicted. One of the point is that you AREN'T opening the account for the fraudulent activity and you just did. Please CLOSE it as soon as you can, before they are able to touch it.
The money which you sent through the MG is unfortunately gone. Same story here with terms and conditions of transfers.
Please file IC3 complaint with FBI, have the evidence stored:
https://www.ic3.gov/complaint/default.aspx
Kindly post: fake profile, email address, phone numbers ( all of them including Nigerian), all fake documents, pictures and money sending info. You MUST BLOCK and IGNORE scammers. They hate to lose their victim which send them money and they will try to convince you that they are real also they will scam you again. DO NOT BRING NIGERIAN SCAMMERS TO OUR SITE.
Please know when you learn that it was a scam effect is devastating but in time you will heal yourself. We all were there. Please feel better.