I have been talking to this person under the name of Phil Robinson. We originally met on the christian dating app Upward. We have only been talking for a week, but things have not been adding up. He on the app was Glenn, 48 but when we started talking and he sent me the photo of the certificate from the military and I asked him about his name, he said his name was Phil (his middle name).
He told me he was stationed in Afghanistan and was coming home in November, originally from Bismarck ND. He stated that his parents died when he was younger and went grew up with a distant family member. He tried to tell me that he started attending West Point when he was 12 years old and graduated from there. Sometimes his English was very good, and other times the tense or plurals were off. He never asked for money and was a gentlemen throughout our conversations. He was ready to pack up and start his life with me, telling me he fell in love with me at first sight etc. He often referred to me as babe, my love, wife etc. That all had red flags up for me. I didn't share my address or any personal info with him, but did share several photos with him (appropriate ones). I didn't give him my real phone number and was texting him through google voice.
When I asked to video chat or talk on the phone, he stated that they were not allowing the soldiers to receive phone calls because of "threats". He also mentioned that he lived "off base" from Agram Airbase. So many things that just didn't add up.
He also told me that his ex-wife cheated on him and that they had been married for 16 years before she left him for her first love and married him when they were divorced. He stated his daughters name was Clare.