Hello, everyone
Apparently i have to add to this story line about this guy, who has contacted me first time somewhere in may , then we ended it on the 6th of June after i refuse to be his beneficiary of his house ownership papers back in Korea and his legal documents ..such his doctor degree certificates , credentials and check book, as his money account had to be suspended for the duration of his staying in a refugee camp somewhere near Sana Yemen, By the way he posed as a neurosurgeon doctor. Very polite didn't go into anything inappropriate but he did express his feelings in most loving way without exaggerations .. we even had a broke up before breaking up for "real ".. at that breakup he displayed such a bad temper and an ugly behavior ..That first time i was upset and at times i even missed that character he portrayed.
After that "break up " i have found many accounts using this guy s pictures , under different names and nationalities . so i collected those images and had sent it to the character JJHYUK ,,asking him if he knows about people using his pictures
he replied aggressively like he didn't recognize me and said that i should leave him alone before him starting to curse at me.
i the meantime i had meeff deactivated ..whilst i was talking to a guy , a different guy who also tried to scam financially and emotionally...i ll post about that guy into a different post.
i ve met again with some version of the guy from the pictures : i met the charcter who s parents died at 3 years old and he was raised in the UK ..butu i guess he figgured put he saw me before ..then i met the guy with whom i currently talking ..( yes im pushing my luck here) who s name is Dong Woo he s 35ish ,,also from seoul , orphaned at 17 , raised in a orphanage ?! took in by the military academy who gave him a chance so he s completed military academy aswell as Business admin ..been cheated by his girlfriend Tina with his best friend, Tony, ..a little white dog came into the story, Daisy, who s his beneficiary in case he dies in all his glory on the battlefield( he didnt answer the question of his dog s race) ...and he s living somewhere in Florida , but willing to relocate for the rights woman..Im in my early 40s ..i gave him the honest story of me also that i ve been traumatized by the some scammers on meeff ..also i made him aware that he s identity is been used by various people ,,and he reacted as if he was appalled by the very idea ...I had for split of second so to speak the intention to believe him ,,thinking that i finally found that guy ...but i soon realized that he doesnt have knowledge of Facebook any modern networking how to even create a facebook account , which by the way i have created for him . By opening a google account , i have turned on the location and kept open the email and the Facebook account ..and ths is how i found out that his phone shows a location somewhere in NIgeria , majority of the time in Lagos , other times in Abuja.
when i saw that prove ..and knowing how gps is working ..i felt so bad almost fell ill ....i cornered him ..he threw a fit but not as violent as the last time we encountered. He goes and said " why would i go and check all that online ? that he s having his localization clouded , by the way he s using an iphone 6, but all the pics i saw the real guy he s using an Samsung S10+ 5G... but his intention is to get himself a Iphone 12 etc once he gets out of there ...I fought with him ..he even reopen an account on meeff , blamed it on me once i cornered him again ... I forgot to mention the fact that i imposed some boundaries in communication such as no talk ab money or anything related ..which really annoyed him to begin with ..Somehow, in careful watched manner he started to say that look if you us to meet sooner , i should be writing to vacation department and apply as spouse for him getting a month off his 3 years contract ..which he s completed 1/3 of it....I said that my situation doesnt allow me to go into money aspects ..he seemed to have understood but still went into blaming me and situation gone south him becoming verbally aggressive as he himself admitted later on into our " relationship" ..
having seen the majority of his pictures ,, he have sent to me this image i attached below ..said he has taken it especially for me.
its disheartening but also shows how gullibility and own traumas makes some people into sitting ducks for predators.
i havent decided yet what the ending will be like ...
thank you for allowing me to share my experience here.